I went on a great wild pursuit for it
A mad and blind chase of it
And through it all
It was sitting within me
For things we know a lot about and people we care about, it’s so tough to watch them make mistakes.
But we intrinsically know the way to learn is to stumble and trip and fall.
To make mistakes.
It’s even harder if we’ve been really hurt and still feel the pain by proxy.
Love my people
Make my contribution
Have a fucking adventure doing it all
The next time you find yourself giving advice (esp. unsolicited), realize that you’re talking to yourself and start taking notes with no expectation the other should listen or heed your advice at al.
…. at least until you do it yourself.
Then you could come back to that person and say, “This is what I actually did and how it actually turned out. Draw your own truth and power from it for your highest value.”
This is called the Experience Share and it is one of the most powerful tools I’ve ever used.
Use it and behold its power to transform your life, business, work.